Their romance continued to blossom as they supported each other through the good and bad, including the death of Michelle’s father in 1990.
Michelle and Barack became husband and wife on October 18, 1992.
“One of the finest men I ever knew was Michelle’s dad, who worked every day despite enormous hardship to make sure his children and his family were cared for," he told ESSENCE.
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Michelle greets Barack after his electrifying speech at the 2004 Democratic National Convention.
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The couple makes their way off stage after the 2004 DNC Speech. Barack shares in his best-seller “The Audacity of Hope” that Michelle gave him the final boost as they embraced before he took the stage and told him, “Just don’t screw it up, buddy.”
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The year 2004 continued to be a big year for the Obamas as Barack beat Alan Keyes in the first Senate race with two Black candidates. They celebrate with daughters Sasha, then 3, right, and Malia, then 6, at their campaign headquarters.
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On January 5, 2005, Senator Barack Obama was sworn into office with his special ladies by his side on Capitol Hill. The two decided to keep their family based in Chicago instead of moving to Washington, D.C., and Michelle continued her position as vice-president of community and external affairs for the University of Chicago Hospitals.
“I’m every woman,” he sings to describe her, ESSENCE reports. “That’s Michelle. It’s like, Chaka Khan! Chaka Khan!”
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The Obamas step out in style at the 36th NAACP Image Awards in 2005. That same year they purchased a home in the South Side of Chicago, and were pleased to illustrate for children in the neighborhood they can reach for the stars.
“So for all of this wonderful madness that comes along with our lives—the secret service, the cars—there are kids on Forty-seventh and King Drive who can walk two blocks and be that close for the first time to somebody who can be the president of the United States. I love that… I like for them to be able to walk and stand in front of our house and see him up close and personal. ‘This man lives in my neighborhood,’ " Michelle tells ESSENCE.
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After much speculation, Barack announced his candidacy for president of the United States on February 10, 2007, with wife Michelle ready to lend her full support to the campaign.
“I tell myself all the time, we’re supposed to take the risk,” she tells ESSENCE. “In the end, I think we have an obligation to give it a shot. To do our best. To give people a choice.”
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As the campaign took Barack far from home and he gained ground in the primaries, he still kept his family a top priority.
“The thing that Barack does is that when he is there, he is a parent,” Michelle tells ESSENCE. “He’s not like play dad. He’s the guy who has read through all of the Harry Potter books with Malia. Barack is very good about understanding that the kids and their structure and stability are important. And he’s somebody who, if there’s discipline that needs to be handed down, he doesn’t hesitate just because he hasn’t seen them in a week.”
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Barack and Michelle celebrate his winning the Democratic nomination in June 2008 as he makes history as the first Black candidate to run on the ticket of a major party.
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The Obama family spends time in Chicago after Barack won his Senate seat.
Michelle holds her own in the spotlight, speaking at the Democratic National Convention in August 2008. After a standing ovation, Barack shares his appreciation for her speech via satellite, as Sasha, left, and Malia look on.
“We haven’t had a lot of peace and quiet over the last four years,” Obama tells ESSENCE. “Michelle’s always had veto power, and always will, over decisions that have a direct impact on her.”
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The Obamas greet Republican presidential candidate Senator John McCain and his wife, Cindy, after the first debate. Michelle contends what allows her to resonate with voters is her ability to relate.
“Michelle has done a heroic job of managing the house, the family and still finding time to campaign and be out on the road,” he says, “I’m always marveling at everything that she can do,” Barack tells ESSENCE.
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The Obamas find comfort and joy in the arms of one another as they continue their history-making bid for the White House. She greets him onstage after his culminating speech to accept the party’s nomination at the Democratic National Convention.
“As president, obviously the day I am inaugurated, the racial dynamics in this country will change to some degree. If you’ve got Michelle as first lady, and Malia and Sasha running around on the South Lawn, that changes how America looks at itself,” Barack tells ESSENCE.View ESSENCE’s Exclusive Photos of Barack Obama’s Campaign Trail »
As the Obamas campaigned in a grueling primary race, friend and fellow Chicagoan Oprah Winfrey joined them at a rally with close to 11,000 supporters in New Hampshire.
“I’m not afraid to lose,” Obama tells Gwen Ifill. “When Michelle and I talked about this, our attitude was, it’s only worth it if we get out of this whole on the other end; if we haven’t given up who we are; if we’re pushing the envelope a little.”
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The Obama’s celebrate Barack’s win as the forty-fourth president of the
United States. In his victory speech in Chicago, Barack acknowledged
Michelle as a driving force in his life.
“And I would not be standing here tonight without the unyielding support
of my best friend for the last 16 years,” he told the crowd of thousands
of supporters. “The rock of our family, the love of my life, the
nation’s next first lady, Michelle Obama.”
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