This year alone, she has given us so many reminders of all the ways Black girls and women are truly one of a kind. Whether she was keeping us laughing, encouraging our children or simply reminding us of why sheโs continued to make us proud over the years, Mrs. Obama never ceased to leave an imprint on our hearts with her words. As we bring 2016 to a close, hereโs a look back at 10 FLOTUS quotes that made us want to wear Black Girl Magic on our sleeves everywhere we went.
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Michelle Obamaโs 2016 Hair Moments
โOur motto is, when they go low, we go high.โ
Michelle Obama at the 2016 Democratic National Convention. Photo: Tom Williams
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Sasha Obama
โI wake up every morning in a house that was built by slaves. And I watch my daughters, two beautiful, intelligent, black young women playing with their dogs on the White House lawn.โ
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โStrong men, men who are truly role models, donโt need to put down women to make themselves feel powerful.โ
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Michelle Obama Wearing Black Designers
โBarack and I take that same approach to our jobs as president and first lady because we know that our words and actions matter, not just to our girls, but the children across this country. Kids who tell us, โI saw you on TV. I wrote a report on you for school.โ Kids like the little Black boy who looked up at my husband, his eyes wide with hope and he wondered, is my hair like yours?โ
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Michelle Obamaโs 2016 Hair Moments
โI know that I wouldnโt be where I am today without having a foundation and an education. Education is the key to freedom these days.โ
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Michelle Obama And Oprah
Oprah: โDid the President always have this much swag?โ FLOTUS: โHe was always very swagalicious throughout.โ
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Michelle Obama 2016
โYouโre important in your own right. People need to value you because of who you are, because of your story. Because of your challenges. Thatโs what makes you unique. You know? You wanna be different, you wanna be special. The fact that youโve been able to overcome challenges โ and this is what Iโve always thought โ that made me smarter. That made me better because I could overcome things that a lot of people who were in the same position never had to overcome.โ
โI specifically did not read other first ladiesโ books because I didnโt want to be influenced by how they defined the role. I knew that I would have to define this role very uniquely and specifically to me and who I was. So, I came in thinking about who I wanted to be in this position and who I needed to be for my girls.โ
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Michelle Obama and Beyonce
Colbert: โIf you got stuck on a dessert Island with one famous person, whoโd you pick?โ FLOTUS: โBeyonce.โ
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Fierce FLOTUS
โThe men in my life do not talk about women like this, and I know that my family is not unusual. And to dismiss this as everyday locker room talk is an insult to decent men everywhere.โ
If youโve ever been to ESSENCE Hollywood House, you know itโs more than just a series of panelsโitโs a gathering of visionaries. A space where Black creatives and leaders come together to share stories, strategies, and solutions. This yearโs conversation, Letโs Talk About LA: Preserving Our City, presented by AT&T, was no different.
The discussion brought together three voices, each deeply invested in shaping LAโs future: D. Smoke, the Grammy-nominated rapper and educator; Olympia Auset, founder of SรPRMRKT, a grocery service tackling food apartheid in LA; and DJ HED, a radio personality and advocate for independent artists. Though their paths differed, their mission was the sameโcreating opportunities, protecting culture, and ensuring Black spaces in LA donโt just survive but thrive.
For Olympia Ausset, the work sheโs doing with SรPRMRKT goes far beyond providing fresh groceriesโitโs about laying the foundation for a stronger, healthier community. โThe LA we love, the cultural beacon itโs known as today, was built by people who worked hard to create their own spaces,โ she shared. โThe reason I do what I do is because itโs essential. We canโt achieve any of the changes I want for my community without being in good health and having access to affordable, organic food. Without places where we can gather, heal, and support each other, none of the other goals will be possible. It starts with taking care of ourselves and building those spaces together.โ
From Olympiaโs focus on wellness and accessibility to DJ HEDโs belief in the power of self-worth, the discussion explored what it means to dream beyond individual success and invest in collective progress. โI see a lot of people who arenโt proud of where they come from, what they look like, or where theyโre at in life,โ he said. โI had to learn to give myself grace, to grow. I grew up in Inglewood, raised by a single mom. We lived in a car, we were on welfare, but I knew I wanted to be bigger than my circumstances. Thatโs what dreaming in Black isโbelieving in something greater and nurturing it until it grows.โ
DJ Smoke also touched on this, emphasizing the importance of intention and fulfillment. โYou donโt want to climb that ladder and realize you went real high in the wrong direction,โ he warned. โA lot of people in LA are ambitious, but if you donโt understand your โwhy,โ you can get to the top and still feel empty. The goal isnโt just to make itโitโs to make it mean something.
Sometimes, as Black creatives, we only dream as far as the next gig or the next check, but dreaming in Black means going beyond that. โIt means thinking bigger than whatโs right in front of you,โ said host Donye Taylor.
This conversation was a call to action โ a reminder that preserving LAโs Black culture means investing in community, honoring our history, and building a legacy that lasts.