The late R&B icon Aaliyah was only 15 years old when she was brought under the tutelage of Juliette Jones, a young professional at the now-defunct Jive Records. Like Aaliyah, Jones was the new kid on the block during the storied record companyโs heyday. Their shared sense of greenness led to an instant connection between the two.

โMy first artist at my very first job as the [mid-Atlantic regional promotion director] was Aaliyah,โ Jones marvels. โShe was shy. And she was a true artist who really respected artistry.โ

Just as Jones guided Aaliyah, during the span of her own career, Jones has been guided by such industry greats as radio legend Arlinda Garrett and Interscope heavyweight Larry Khan. Jones is as opinionated and fiery as she is graceful and reserved. She has the kind of armor that comes with a long run in a hard-nosed business.

Today, sheโs the executive vice-president of urban promotion at Atlantic Records. Sheโs worked with some of the biggest names in music, ensuring that hits from artists like the late Nipsey Hussle, Bruno Mars, Gucci Mane and Cardi B make it to the airwaves. Here, Jones reflects on her enduring career.

ESSENCE: As someone who makes so many top-level decisions, have you always been comfortable as a leader?
JULIETTE JONES: No. I mean, Iโm not always going to be comfortable with it now. Some days I definitely feel like Iโm winging it. But I donโt think Iโm the only one who does that.
ESSENCE: Itโs great that you can admit that, because who doesnโt feel like theyโre winging it at times?
JONES: Itโs important for us to know that almost everyone, at every level, suffers from impostor syndrome in the beginning. Youโve never done this job before. Even if you were great at the last one, this new thing is still like, I was killing the last oneโI could have stayed there forever. Am I about to expose myself? Thatโs pretty common.
One mistake people make is letting your job become your identity. Itโs just a job, and youโre here to make money.โ
ESSENCE: What advice do you have for anyone whoโs been laid off or fired for the first time in their career?
JONES: One huge mistake people make is letting your job become your identity. Itโs just a job, and youโre here to make money. Anything we perceive as rejection sucks in the moment. I would venture to say many of us have had a relationship that didnโt work out, and in hindsight we donโt think, Thatโs the one that got away. Weโre usually like, Whew, thank God that didnโt work out.
ESSENCE: What are the main challenges of working in your industry?
JONES: If you canโt move at the speed of the music business, itโs not for you. This business moves at a fast pace. Iโm old enough to understand that you can be mad at life or you can get into the flow of it. Itโs up to you. If you want to be mad at it forever, you can be mad until we bury you and throw dirt on top of you. That doesnโt sound like a good plan, though. Itโs better to get into the flow.
To hear more from Juliette Jonesโs herself, listen to the latest episode of UnBossed podcast below!