Friends hold us down through the best and worst of times. We call them when we have good news to share, or bad news to vent about. They’re with us during the turn-up, and the good ones never fail to show up.
Now that the holidays are upon us, we’re sure you’ll be searching for gifts that speak to every type of friend in your tribe. We know there’s no “one size fits all” approach to shopping for the ones we call our chosen family. So we’ve rounded up a few suggestions to take the guesswork out of it.
Show your appreciation with these gifts for every type of bestie.
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For The Healthy Friend
Whether she’s a hard core gym rat or nutrition aficionado, your health-conscious bestie will appreciate this portable blender to bring her smoothies on the go. This sleek and easy-to-clean model comes in multiple colors and is USB rechargeable.
Sleep is an essential need that we simply don’t get enough of. The friend that doesn’t play about her beauty rest will absolutely love you for this pick. Beauty brand This Works lives up to its name with its Dream Sleep Pillow Spray. Its aromatherapeutic blend of lavender, camomile, and vetivert helps you fall asleep faster and wake up refreshed.
She knows every beauty blogger on the web and you’ll never catch her out without a serious beat. Yep, you know the girl! You should also know that she’ll appreciate this arsenal of universally flattering lip glosses from Fenty Beauty. A true beauty boss can never have enough lip products…trust us!
Nothing can destroy her inner peace, and we want to keep it that way! Black-owned wellness company Alexandra Winbush is restoring self-care one product at a time. Their yummy tea and candle sets are perfect for setting the mood and keeping vibrations high. Each set comes with an expertly curated playlist to help you unwind. Bad vibes don’t stand a chance!
Somehow, this friend can rock a paper bag and make it look like couture! She’s also got a stellar collection of handbags, which you can add to with this always on-trend animal print staple by Topshop.
Drinks are always on her, and shots are always her idea. Not only does she get the party going, but she helps the group remember to laugh and live life to the fullest. Supply her bar cart with some of the best tequila on the market – like this Roca Patrón Reposado made with time-honored “tahona” technique. The taste is sensational, just like her spirit!
This hospitable homie is always down to host! Her crib is where Friendsgiving, birthday parties and other group celebrations take place, and her shindigs are always tastefully put together. These stoneware mugs add a touch of class to any of her celebrations. It’s always five o’clock somewhere, after all!
Whenever you call her, she’ll come running! Whatever you need, she’s got your back. But isn’t it funny how this type of comrade always forgets to treat herself? We don’t want her making this a habit. HERBIVORE’s Self-Love Body Ritual kit is a treat for the woman that does it all. Their two skin-perfecting body polishes and a glow-boosting, moisturizing Jasmine Body Oil are the perfect gifts for the selfless soul.
If you’ve ever been to ESSENCE Hollywood House, you know it’s more than just a series of panels—it’s a gathering of visionaries. A space where Black creatives and leaders come together to share stories, strategies, and solutions. This year’s conversation, Let’s Talk About LA: Preserving Our City, presented by AT&T, was no different.
The discussion brought together three voices, each deeply invested in shaping LA’s future: D. Smoke, the Grammy-nominated rapper and educator; Olympia Auset, founder of SÜPRMRKT, a grocery service tackling food apartheid in LA; and DJ HED, a radio personality and advocate for independent artists. Though their paths differed, their mission was the same—creating opportunities, protecting culture, and ensuring Black spaces in LA don’t just survive but thrive.
For Olympia Ausset, the work she’s doing with SÜPRMRKT goes far beyond providing fresh groceries—it’s about laying the foundation for a stronger, healthier community. “The LA we love, the cultural beacon it’s known as today, was built by people who worked hard to create their own spaces,” she shared. “The reason I do what I do is because it’s essential. We can’t achieve any of the changes I want for my community without being in good health and having access to affordable, organic food. Without places where we can gather, heal, and support each other, none of the other goals will be possible. It starts with taking care of ourselves and building those spaces together.”
From Olympia’s focus on wellness and accessibility to DJ HED’s belief in the power of self-worth, the discussion explored what it means to dream beyond individual success and invest in collective progress. “I see a lot of people who aren’t proud of where they come from, what they look like, or where they’re at in life,” he said. “I had to learn to give myself grace, to grow. I grew up in Inglewood, raised by a single mom. We lived in a car, we were on welfare, but I knew I wanted to be bigger than my circumstances. That’s what dreaming in Black is—believing in something greater and nurturing it until it grows.”
DJ Smoke also touched on this, emphasizing the importance of intention and fulfillment. “You don’t want to climb that ladder and realize you went real high in the wrong direction,” he warned. “A lot of people in LA are ambitious, but if you don’t understand your ‘why,’ you can get to the top and still feel empty. The goal isn’t just to make it—it’s to make it mean something.
Sometimes, as Black creatives, we only dream as far as the next gig or the next check, but dreaming in Black means going beyond that. “It means thinking bigger than what’s right in front of you,” said host Donye Taylor.
This conversation was a call to action – a reminder that preserving LA’s Black culture means investing in community, honoring our history, and building a legacy that lasts.