Beth Pearson Is All Of Us When We Lose A Job We Love
Separating our jobs from our identity and sense of purpose isn't easy. Here, one writer explains what she learned from watching one of her favorite TV characters fall apart.
Susan Kelechi Watson as Beth Pearson on “This Is Us” | Courtesy of NBC
Nothing has accurately portrayed the emotional rollercoaster felt after being laid off from a job like NBC’s third season of This is Us. Beth Pearson, played by Susan Kelechi Watson, is all of us when we lose a job, especially a job we love. Like Beth, millions of Americans felt similar experiences of confronting the uncertainty of what happens next after a lay off which can include a change of lifestyle, difficulties of job searching and interviewing, and an unfamiliar and unstructured day. We knew Beth loved her job, even with the few moments throughout This is Us, where we saw her at work or discussing work. For many of us, like Beth, our jobs offer a reprieve from the daily hardships of marriage and motherhood. In Beth’s case, her job offered structure and a sense of control that she did not always have at home. Beth’s late father-in-law, William, told her before he passed that she is the bass of her marriage. She would one day need to be a solo trumpeter, and make her needs take precedence. He asked her not to keep quiet when that day comes, because up until the mid-season premiere her needs came last. No one wins when the well is dry, and her job filled her up becoming a lifeline of purpose that she would soon lose. Ahead, here are just a few reasons why Beth’s job struggles resonated for so many of us.The Sting of Betrayal: Watching Beth sit in her meeting prepared to pitch her way to a promotion, but to be later told that they were letting her go, reminded me of my first lay off. It often comes out of nowhere. While you may have sensed the demeanor of your coworkers change, you carry on right until they give you the bad news. It’s hard to let go of something that you aren’t ready to relinquish, and we see Beth struggle through it episodes later. No job is forever and preparing for times like this can ease the pain and transition to life after layoff much easier.
Moving On: Beth had to learn how to navigate life after full-time employment. I know I’m not the only one who teared up watching Beth bomb a job interview. It was like watching a woman who never got over her ex cry over their break up. The wounds were too fresh, and she had yet to give herself time to mourn the loss of her job. Before you dive into your job search, take the proper time to be emotional about it. She lost a piece of her identity when she was no longer doing what she loved, and that’s what we all have to get use to. Beth didn’t lean on her husband, instead, she took that moment to cry in front of prospective employers, better yet strangers. That’s never a good look in my book.More Than Your Job: Many of us live to work and not work to live. We lose ourselves in our careers, and when it’s all taken away, we don’t know who we are without it. It’s a toxic way to live and we have to find our purpose outside of our job roles. Beth looked like a lost puppy when she took on the role as a housewife. She knew that role was not for her when she struggled to manage her daughter’s Girl Scout cookie sales. Her daughters threw a lot of sass her way, and Beth told her disappointed daughters where they and their cookies could go, and it wasn’t pretty. Managing the home was something that her husband did, and he did it well, and she does not have faith she could fill his shoes. Beth is beyond ready to go solo.These past few episodes exposed some of the challenges many working women face when their jobs are no longer there. The rollercoaster that Beth is riding shows us that we should always be prepared for a layoff because no job is forever. Everyone at any stage of their working life, no matter the position should always consider this: What’s your plan B when your job is terminated?We also learn from Beth that we must find purpose outside of our jobs, so that we don’t lose ourselves when it’s gone. And if you do find yourself in an unfortunate situation, now more than ever is the time to rest, recharge and thoughtfully venture forth into the next chapter of your career.
Star Gazing: Super Bowl LIX Weekend, NYFW ‘25, Gabrielle Union, Cardi B And More
The Big Game brought celebrities worldwide to The Big Easy for a collection of exciting events and activities.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 07: Gabrielle Union and Saweetie arrive at EA Sports presents The Madden Bowl at Orpheum Theater on February 07, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kaitlyn Morris/Getty Images)
This past weekend, New Orleans transformed into a vibrant hub of star-studded events, with Black celebrities making notable appearances across the city. The festivities culminated in Super Bowl LIX at the Caesars Superdome, where the Philadelphia Eagles triumphed over the Kansas City Chiefs.
The halftime show was a highlight, featuring an electrifying performance by Kendrick Lamar, who was joined by SZA. The show also included surprise appearances by Samuel L. Jackson, portraying Uncle Sam, and tennis legend Serena Williams.
Throughout the weekend, various events attracted diverse crowds. At the DraftKings x KLUTCH Sports Group Super Bowl LIX Party, industry moguls and athletes mingled, celebrating the intersection of sports and entertainment. The MAXIM Saints & Sinners Big Game Party saw appearances from stars like Megan Thee Stallion, who later delivered a dynamic performance at a FanDuel event.
Jeffrey Lurie, Jalen Hurts at Super Bowl LIX at Caesars Superdome on February 09, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Christopher Polk/Penske Media via Getty Images)
50 Cent’s Super Bold Comedy show brought laughter to attendees, and the 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party was another hotspot, drawing celebrities from various sectors. In a unique collaboration, Tequila Don Julio x Popeyes teamed up for a Big Game Celebration in NOLA, offering guests a fusion of flavors and entertainment. EA Sports’ The Madden Bowl and the GQ Bowl were also star-studded, with athletes and entertainers sporting their best threads in celebration of the big game. Hosted by Taylor Rooks, the 6th Annual Sports Power Brunch honored influential figures in sports, with several Black celebrities recognized for their contributions.
Simultaneously, New York Fashion Week concluded with the Sergio Hudson Fall/Winter 2025 Fashion Show, where Keke Palmer turned heads in a cream ensemble, embodying leadership and authority.
From the bustling streets of New Orleans to the runways of New York, stars showcased their influence and style, making this weekend a memorable celebration of culture and achievement.
Let’s take a look at the stars spotted across the country.
Ledisi sings the Black National Anthem.
US singer songwriter Ledisi performs “Lift Every Voice and Sing” ahead of during Super Bowl LIX between the Kansas City Chiefs and the Philadelphia Eagles at Caesars Superdome in New Orleans, Louisiana, February 9, 2025. (Photo by TIMOTHY A. CLARY / AFP) (Photo by TIMOTHY A. CLARY/AFP via Getty Images)
Jon Batiste shines in his hometown.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 09: Jon Batiste performs the National Anthem onstage prior to Super Bowl LIX at Caesars Superdome on February 09, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Cindy Ord/Getty Images)
Kendrick Lamar and SZA at the Halftime Show.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 09: Kendrick Lamar performs with SZA in the Apple Music Super Bowl LIX Halftime Show at Caesars Superdome on February 9, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kevin Sabitus/Getty Images)
Gayle King at the KLUTCH Sports SBLIX Party.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Gayle King attends the DraftKings x KLUTCH sports group Super Bowl LIX party sponsored by Smirnoff and NYX Professional Makeup on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Vivien Killilea/Getty Images for DraftKings and KLUTCH Sports Group)
Latto shows love.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Latto attends 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party at The Sugar Mill on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kaitlyn Morris/WireImage)
GloRilla in The Big Easy.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: GloRilla attends 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party at The Sugar Mill on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kaitlyn Morris/WireImage)
The Bayou Barbie is back home.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Angel Reese attends 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party at The Sugar Mill on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kaitlyn Morris/WireImage)
Russell and Ciara at the Fanatics Super Bowl Party.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Russell Wilson and Ciara attend 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party at The Sugar Mill on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kaitlyn Morris/WireImage)
A’ja Wilson poses for a picture.
MIAMI, FLORIDA – FEBRUARY 08: American basketball player, A’ja Wilson poses for a photo during the 15th Annual Miami Heat Charitable Gala at Kaseya Center on February 08, 2025 in Miami, Florida. (Photo by Brennan Asplen/Getty Images)
Taylor Rooks in NOLA.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Taylor Rooks attends 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party at The Sugar Mill on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kaitlyn Morris/WireImage)
The New Orleans native at the MAXIM party.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Dawn Richard attends the MAXIM Saints and Sinners Big Game Party at Generations Hall on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Aaron J. Thornton/WireImage)
Karrueche Tran on the red carpet.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 07: Karrueche Tran attends FanDuel’s Super Bowl Party Powered by Spotify on February 07, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Jeff Schear/Getty Images for FanDuel’s Super Bowl Party Powered by Spotify!)
Taylor Rooks attends the GQ Bowl.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 07: Taylor Rooks attends the GQ Bowl at Hotel Peter and Paul on February 07, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Monica Schipper/Getty Images)
Cardi B attends Beacher’s Madhouse at Republic NOLA.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Cardi B attends Beacher’s Madhouse at Republic NOLA on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Marcus Ingram/Getty Images)
Ochocinco at the SB Parade.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Chad Ochocinco Johnson throws balls to fans and rides on the DraftKings Super Bowl LIX host committee float on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Vivien Killilea/Getty Images for DraftKings)
Jordan Chiles attends the Leigh Steinberg Super Bowl Party.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 8: Jordan Chiles attends the Leigh Steinberg Super Bowl Party at New Orleans Jazz Museum at the Old US Mint on February 8, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Peter G. Forest/Getty Images)
Odell Beckham Jr. takes a picture.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 06: In this image released on February 8, 2025 Odell Beckham Jr. poses in the portrait studio during FRI&NDS Super Bowl Party at Merchant Hall on February 06, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kaitlyn Morris/Getty Images)
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Tinashe performs onstage during SB LIX weekend.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 07: Tinashe performs onstage during Tequila Don Julio x Popeyes Team Up for A Big Game Celebration in NOLA on February 07, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Joe Scarnici/Getty Images for Tequila Don Julio)
Larry Morrow attends the 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Larry Morrow attends the 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party at The Sugar Mill on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Anna Webber/Getty Images)
The Pivot podcast hosts.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 07: Members of The Pivot Podcast arrive at EA Sports presents The Madden Bowl at Orpheum Theater on February 07, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kaitlyn Morris/Getty Images)
Tarriona “Tank” Ball attends the NFL Night of Pride with GLAAD.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 07: Tarriona Tank Ball attends the NFL Night of Pride with GLAAD at The Joy Theater on February 07, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Jenn Devereaux/Getty Images)
Cardi B visits Fat Tuesday on Bourbon Street.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 07: Cardi B visits Fat Tuesday Bourbon 2 at Fat Tuesday Bourbon 2 on February 07, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Marcus Ingram/Getty Images)
Marsha Cooke attends the 6th Annual Sports Power Brunch.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 05: Marsha Cooke attends the 6th Annual Sports Power Brunch at Four Seasons Hotel New Orleans on February 05, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Jenn Devereaux/Getty Images)
Megan Thee Stallion in New Orleans.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 07: Megan Thee Stallion performs onstage during FanDuel’s Super Bowl Party Powered by Spotify on February 07, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Daniel Boczarski/Getty Images for FanDuel’s Super Bowl Party Powered by Spotify!)
Danielle Deadwyler attends the 30th Annual Critics Choice Awards.
SANTA MONICA, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 07: Danielle Deadwyler attends the 30th Annual Critics Choice Awards at Barker Hangar on February 07, 2025 in Santa Monica, California. (Photo by Kevin Winter/Getty Images for Critics Choice Association)
Ebro Darden, Nadeska Alexis and Kendrick Lamar.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 06: (L-R) Ebro Darden, Nadeska Alexis and Kendrick Lamar speak during the Super Bowl LVIX Pregame & Apple Music Super Bowl LVIX Halftime Show Press Conference at Ernest N. Morial Convention Center on February 06, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Mike Coppola/Getty Images)
Aldis Hodge in Los Angeles.
SANTA MONICA, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 07: Aldis Hodge attends the 30th Annual Critics Choice Awards at Barker Hangar on February 07, 2025 in Santa Monica, California. (Photo by Emma McIntyre/Getty Images for Critics Choice Association)
The cast of ‘Harlem’ celebrate the series finale.
LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 06:(L-R) Tyler Lepley, Shoniqua Shandai, Tracy Oliver, Grace Byers, Gail Bean, Meagan Good, Jerrie Johnson and Jonathan Burke attend Season 3 Celebration Event For Prime Video’s “Harlem” on February 06, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Arnold Turner/Getty Images for Prime Video)
Janelle Monáe attends the 27th Annual Costume Designers Guild Awards.
LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 06: Janelle Monáe attends the 27th Annual Costume Designers Guild Awards at The Ebell of Los Angeles on February 06, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)
Keke Palmer during NYFW.
NEW YORK, NEW YORK – FEBRUARY 06: Keke Palmer attends the front row for the Brandon Maxwell show during New York Fashion Week on February 06, 2025 in New York City. (Photo by Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images)
Storm Reid in Beverly Hills.
BEVERLY HILLS, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 04: Storm Reid attends the Fashion Trust U.S. Cocktail Event in Los Angeles to Celebrate the FTUS 2025 Finalists at Private Residence on February 04, 2025 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Stefanie Keenan/Getty Images for FTG)
Crystal Hayslett and Devale Ellis attend the 13th SCAD TVFest.
ATLANTA, GEORGIA – FEBRUARY 06: (L-R) Crystal Hayslett and Devale Ellis attend Tyler Perry’s “Sistas” Q&A during the 13th SCAD TVfest on February 06, 2025 in Atlanta, Georgia. (Photo by Jason Kempin/Getty Images)
Mary J. Blige performs onstage during her “The For My Fans” tour.
ATLANTA, GEORGIA – FEBRUARY 03: Singer Mary J. Blige performs onstage during her “The For My Fans” tour at State Farm Arena on February 03, 2025 in Atlanta, Georgia. (Photo by Paras Griffin/Getty Images)
Usher skates on the Jennifer Hudson Show.
BURBANK, CALIFORNIA – January 31, 2025: Usher appears with Jennifer Hudson on “The Jennifer Hudson Show” airing February 4, 2025 in Burbank, California. (Photo by Chris Haston/WBTV via Getty Images). Check your local listings for times
Winnie Harlow visits the Empire State Building.
NEW YORK, NEW YORK – FEBRUARY 05: Winnie Harlow visits the Empire State Building on February 05, 2025 in New York City. (Photo by John Nacion/Getty Images for Empire State Realty Trust)
Gabrielle Union attends 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party.
NEW ORLEANS, LOUISIANA – FEBRUARY 08: Gabrielle Union attends 2025 Fanatics Super Bowl Party at The Sugar Mill on February 08, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (Photo by Kaitlyn Morris/WireImage)
Muni Long attends the Sergio Hudson Fashion Show.
NEW YORK, NEW YORK – FEBRUARY 07: Muni Long attends the Sergio Hudson Fall/Winter 2025 Fashion Show at NeueHouse Madison Square on February 07, 2025 in New York City. (Photo by Udo Salters/Patrick McMullan via Getty Images)
Zoe Saldaña attends AARP’s Annual Movies For Grownups Awards.
BEVERLY HILLS, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 08: Zoe Saldaña attends AARP’s Annual Movies For Grownups Awards at the Beverly Wilshire, A Four Seasons Hotel on February 08, 2025 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Presley Ann/Getty Images for AARP)