Ever the country boy, Kim’s man Kory insists that Kim learn how to use (and buy) a gun. A natural, she shots a .22 and .380 with a steady arm. But don’t worry, Kim’s still all lady. She decides on a pink gun.
02
Cheers to That
Phaedra and Cynthia grab their men for a double date. Despite their last encounter at Kim’s baby shower where things almost got physical, the men were civil. But it’s hard not to smile when Phaedra’s discussion of the heat wave leads to a “powder in the panty” day quip.
03
The Motherland
Phaedra is determined to get all the ladies on board for a trip to South Africa. She takes Kandi to an African dance class. There was a lot of sweating, booty smacking and drums.
04
Back in Time
Revving up for their trip to the motherland, Phaedra and Sheree take a field trip to a black history museum. A self described “connoisseur of artistic nudity” Phaedra gropes a statue of a slave and his family jewels. Disappointed, she says he’s no Ridickulous.
05
Private Eye
On a visit to a blog, Kandi discovers mug shots of NeNe’s new BFF, Marlo. Kandi feels empowers because she now “knows how to deal with her.” Phaedra declares “Marlo is dangerous!"
06
Red Bottoms
Nene meets up with Mr. big (aka pizza mogul John Kolaj) and his design team to discuss her new lounge that will cater to professionals who earn 200k a year. Now that’s a grown and sexy crowd for sure. After agreeing to a 1.8 million dollar venture, John serenades NeNe with yet another pair of red bottom shoes.
07
Seeing the Future
Kim returns to her favorite (and accurate) psychic, Rose for more predictions. Rose sees another child- a girl- and a marriage to Kroy that will last till’ death do them part. She even reads lil’ KJ’s hand and declares he won’t be getting married early on in life. Guess we’ll have to wait and see.
08
Hello?
Phaedra may know some big people in the motherland, but her cell phone carrier won’t allow her stay in touch with them. Her call to the Vice President of Ghana drops.
09
Let’s Talk it Out
Oh, Mama Joyce. After a few drinks (oh, was there alcohol in these?) Kandi’s mom insists that Sheree and Kim acknowledge Nene with a “Hi.” The ladies reluctantly comply only for Nene to return an even less enthusiastic “Hi.”
10
Girls Go Global
At dinner, when asked if she’ll be attending the trip to South Africa, Nene politely replies no. Outside the restaurant, she tells Kandi she’ll consider it. But it looks like she does in fact board the plane in next week’s episode. This should be interesting!
If you’ve ever been to ESSENCE Hollywood House, you know it’s more than just a series of panels—it’s a gathering of visionaries. A space where Black creatives and leaders come together to share stories, strategies, and solutions. This year’s conversation, Let’s Talk About LA: Preserving Our City, presented by AT&T, was no different.
The discussion brought together three voices, each deeply invested in shaping LA’s future: D. Smoke, the Grammy-nominated rapper and educator; Olympia Auset, founder of SÜPRMRKT, a grocery service tackling food apartheid in LA; and DJ HED, a radio personality and advocate for independent artists. Though their paths differed, their mission was the same—creating opportunities, protecting culture, and ensuring Black spaces in LA don’t just survive but thrive.
For Olympia Ausset, the work she’s doing with SÜPRMRKT goes far beyond providing fresh groceries—it’s about laying the foundation for a stronger, healthier community. “The LA we love, the cultural beacon it’s known as today, was built by people who worked hard to create their own spaces,” she shared. “The reason I do what I do is because it’s essential. We can’t achieve any of the changes I want for my community without being in good health and having access to affordable, organic food. Without places where we can gather, heal, and support each other, none of the other goals will be possible. It starts with taking care of ourselves and building those spaces together.”
From Olympia’s focus on wellness and accessibility to DJ HED’s belief in the power of self-worth, the discussion explored what it means to dream beyond individual success and invest in collective progress. “I see a lot of people who aren’t proud of where they come from, what they look like, or where they’re at in life,” he said. “I had to learn to give myself grace, to grow. I grew up in Inglewood, raised by a single mom. We lived in a car, we were on welfare, but I knew I wanted to be bigger than my circumstances. That’s what dreaming in Black is—believing in something greater and nurturing it until it grows.”
DJ Smoke also touched on this, emphasizing the importance of intention and fulfillment. “You don’t want to climb that ladder and realize you went real high in the wrong direction,” he warned. “A lot of people in LA are ambitious, but if you don’t understand your ‘why,’ you can get to the top and still feel empty. The goal isn’t just to make it—it’s to make it mean something.
Sometimes, as Black creatives, we only dream as far as the next gig or the next check, but dreaming in Black means going beyond that. “It means thinking bigger than what’s right in front of you,” said host Donye Taylor.
This conversation was a call to action – a reminder that preserving LA’s Black culture means investing in community, honoring our history, and building a legacy that lasts.