Six years ago, on the campus of Stanford University, the bride and the groom crossed paths. Their love story was built on a passion for justice, empathy for others, and a drive to make a difference. Their wedding day combined traditional Christian values and Ghanaian culture. It was beautiful!
Bride: Anna Malaika Grace Ntiriwah Asare, 25, Doctoral Student and Gates Scholar at the University of Cambridge
Groom: Michael Derrick Tubs, 27, Mayor, City of Stockton
The Big Day: 12/9/2017
Location: Stockton, California and Cartagena, Colombia
Style/Theme: Combining traditional Christian values with Ghanaian culture
Michael and Anna were on vacation with one of their best friends, Lange, and his partner, Jason in Cartagena, CO to celebrate Michael’s mayoral win and Lange’s School Board win. The four friends went on a walking tour of the city and ended up at the top of the Iglesia de San Pedro Claver right at sunset where the sky was a beautiful orange and pink color, there was a view of the city landscape and take in the gorgeous sight of the beach. Then, Michael got down on one knee and asked Anna the question she didn’t even know was coming—”will you marry me?”—and of course, she said yes!
“We met while undergraduate students at Stanford University,” said Michael. “We were in a student group meeting organizing around the Troy Davis execution. Anna was just a sophomore but was the BSU President and I was the NAACP President. I was focused on outcomes and organizing the event and was somewhat rushing the meeting. Anna then spoke with such passion and emotion to the point of tears about the injustice of it all, and I knew then that she was the one. “
“Michael is perfect in his imperfections, he is brilliant, handsome, confident, but he is also humble, God-fearing, and hilarious,” said Anna of her groom. “He can command a room when he wants to but he also notices when others aren’t being included and he invites them to partake. He is giving and he always thinks about others before he thinks about himself.”
“I knew when Michael and I went on our very first date that we would get married, which sometimes scared me because I was so young,” recalls Anna. “But he showed me such respect and adoration, he put me above everything else, he didn’t play games. We connected so quickly on that first romantic date, the first time it was truly just the two of us spending time together and I knew we would build a beautiful life together.”
“I said ‘yes’ because I cannot picture my life without him,” the bride shared. “We have been through so much together and throughout the years we have grown, we have held on to each other during the hardest times, and we have always been thankful to God through it all. Michael makes me a better person, we balance each other perfectly, and we are unstoppable together.”