
That night, Fox 5 in Atlanta aired an interview with a local businesswoman, Ginger White, (yes, sheโs Black) who confessed she and Cain, also an ordained minister, had a 13-year affair. โIโm not proud,โ White told FOX 5 senior I-Team reporter Dale Russell.
โI wanted to give my side, before it was thrown out there and made out to be something filthy,โ added White, who says her physical relationship with Cain ended 8 months ago. โI didnโt want to do this, but it was something I felt at the end of the day was the right thing to do. Is it going to hurt a lot people? Yes. Iโm sure I will be one of them.โ
As โproofโ of her claims, White provided Fox 5 with Cainโs personal cell phone number, and four months worth of phone records which included calls and texts as late as 4 A.M.
White met Cain in the late โ90s when he was president of the National Restaurant Association. He was giving a presentation in Louisville, Kentucky, and after they shared drinks and he invited her back to his hotel room. She alleges that for the next 13 years, he would fly her to cities where he was speaking and he lavished her with gifts.
โHe made it very intriguing,โ White told FOX 5. โIt was fun. It was something that took me away from my humdrum life at the time. And it was exciting.โ
Cainโs attorney, Lin Wood, sent a statement to FOX 5 that, oddly, didnโt deny the allegations. โThis appears to be an accusation of private, alleged consensual conduct between adults โ a subject matter which is not a proper subject of inquiry by the media or the public,โ the letter read. โ[Cain] has no obligation to discuss these types of accusations publicly.โ
Many have wondered whether the latest accusation will (finally) derail Cainโs campaign. Iโm no Cain supporter, but Iโm undecided on whether he should call it a wrap over this latest scandal. Marital infidelity isnโt exactly ethical, but if that is the set bar, then wouldnโt we be getting rid of a whole lot of politicians? I view an affair as a personal matter that should have no barring on his professional qualifications.
On the other hand, I canโt help but to think about the havoc Cainโs campaign is having on his marriage of 43 years, which has to be strained by all the rumors about him splashed all over the news for weeks. Heโs slipped in the polls, showing voters are lacking faith. Maybe it is time for Cain to head home, if he still can, and focus on whatโs left of his family.
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Demetria L. Lucas is the author of โA Belle in Brooklyn: The Go-to Girl for Advice on Living Your Best Single Lifeโ (Atria) in stores now. Follow her on Twitter @abelleinbk